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Can you guess the feeling in our house? I’m bored, like I can’t remember being bored for a very long time. The kind of boredom that turns you into a child. Wandering around the house, lolling on furniture, mithering my husband upstairs who’s actually working. Messaging friends to say how bored I am. And it’s …
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Imposter syndrome’s a term I hear often. That feeling when you don’t think you’re good enough to be in your position or that your achievements and high regard of others is not deserved. It can stop people progressing in a career or activity because they don’t think they’re good enough. A feeling of being a …
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I don’t really think of myself as adventurous. Sure, I like being outdoors, I’ve always liked going for a decent walk, I like swimming outside now, but I never think of it as “adventurous”. I have what I think of as “adventurous” mates. They go off and do proper crazy stuff like kayaking down the …
Gah, that was harder than I thought. For seven days (it should’ve been 10 but I got bored) I posted something very normal I do every day on Instagram and Facebook as a kind of antithesis of the perfect, exciting, fun lives we usually see of others through social media that I talked about here …
I get asked a lot of questions about swimming but there are two that always stand out the most over winter: Is it cold swimming outside at this time of year? Why bother when you only go in the water for a few minutes? In reply to 1: You appear to be wearing a warm …
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For the last 10 days of 2019 I posted a photo a day on Facebook and Instagram to represent each year in the last decade. They weren’t necessarily highlights of that year. Just a picture that represented a thing I’d done. Something I was proud of or something that just represented where my life was …
Autumn is officially here. The trees are turning and the water is cooling. There’s a distinct nip to the air. My house is full of conkers slowly going mouldy (thanks boys). I love changing seasons. I think I’d get bored without them. My best friend lived in New Orleans for a while and one of …
Things often go wrong in life, plans fall through, people let you down, you let people down, events get cancelled. My reaction to such events varies greatly. Sometimes I get angry, disappointed, frustrated, sad, pissed off. Sometimes I roll over and go ‘meh’, it didn’t matter. Other times, but not often enough, I seize the …
Six weeks ago today I lost my water. My solace, my comfort, my relief from everyday life. Somewhere I’ve cried, screamed, grinned and howled with laughter in. I’ve forged friendships I never thought I’d have in it. A place of celebration as well as a place to reflect and sometimes dwell. Long swims, short swims, …
At the end of the school holidays we went away on a camping trip with a rather large group of friends………..about 70 of us I think. They’re friends from university that we rarely see at any other time through the year. We all have kids and jobs and trying to meet up just becomes another …
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